Experiencing
the Joy of Connecting With Our Children
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Many parents
Many children
Mindful Parenting is a contemplative practice through which we become more mindful of our children and, in doing so, experience a more joyful life.
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of parenting. By mindfully attending to our children, both when
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turn, our connection to the cosmos. This makes us a better parent,
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sip slowly
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Wednesday September 1, 2004
The Morning Sip:
Your Child In Every Leaf
Much of our time is spent identifying
with the internal chatter in our mind. We can become so absorbed
in our thoughts that we detach from what is actually taking place
in the present moment. The practice of mindful parenting brings
us back into the here and now.
Regardless of where you live,
you probably have trees and plant life growing around you. Whether this
life is in abundance or sprouting out of and around cement sidewalks
and roads, it can serve as a wonderful cue to the practice of
mindful parenting.
In
every leaf
I
see my beautiful child
This verse reminds us of the extraordinary
presence of our child in our life. Today, as you pass trees
and plants (whether you are speeding past in your car or casually
strolling alongside) visualize or sense your child's face in every
leaf. This exercise should be an easy one that naturally happens.
It reorients you to the present moment.
As you spot the
flora, breathe deeply and relax your shoulders. Soften your
gaze and allow the imagery to fill the scenery. Sense your child's
smiling face everywhere there is green.
Smile as you absorb your
child's ever presence. Your child, like the trees and plants,
is a part of nature.