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The Daily Sip: The Eyes Have It
We are all connected to each other. During
times of tragedy and disaster, we naturally tap into this connection.
Still, much of the time, it is difficult to perceive this deep connection.
The hectic world in which we live, coupled with our "instincts"
for survival, overwhelm the grounded interconnectedness
that we would otherwise feel and would bring us comfort.
It
is said that a newborn's eyes are practically the same size as an
adult's and that as the child develops, the eyes remain roughly the
same size. If this is so, then when you look into another person's
eyes, you are seeing the eyes of a newborn.
In your eyes
I see the eyes of a child
My child
Today, when you are speaking with someone or looking
at a person, look into their eyes and recite the above verse. Whether
you are having a fun loving easy time, or a difficult time with the
person, remember that, not long ago, they were a child. Do they
still laugh with the carefree joy of a child or have they become
reserved, perhaps sullen?
Allow the cue of a child's eyes to
open awareness to your child, wherever he or she may be. As
you look into the eyes, breathe deeply and slowly. Relax and
drop your shoulders. Smile as you bring to mind your
child's beautiful eyes. The eyes you remember from your child's early
childhood -- the eyes you know today.