The unexpected tends to awaken. While it is nice to receive gifts on special occasions, it's the gift we receive out of the blue that awakens us to the quality of a relationship out of which the gift manifested. This might be an "I just wanted to say I love you" gift. It could also be one's first glance at the Grand Canyon as it comes into view.
As we approach the New Year, you may begin to contemplate resolutions. Today, make a resolution that pertains to your child.
To do so, situate yourself in a quiet place with as little distraction as possible. Breathe deeply and slowly, relaxing your shoulders and softening your belly as you draw your breath in. Then, open awareness to your child by visualizing him or her. If you are physically present with your child at the time, look deeply into your child. Gently put to yourself the question, "How might our relationship deepen?" Try not to start thinking of an answer; the answer will come from a place deeper than thought. Allow there to be silence, stilling the internal chatter. Be aware of your breathing.
After a few moments a resolution borne out of mindful contemplation of your child may emerge. If it doesn't, then repeat this process a little later on. It may even emerge in the middle of the day when you least expect it.
This resolution is one you may begin today. It is a gift you have given to yourself and to your child.