The computer keyboard has
become fairly integral to our daily lives. Whether on a computer
at work, traversing the Internet, or catching up on e-mails, our fingers hover
just above the keyboard, our eyes glancing down as needed while we
peck away.
Our computer time may be enjoyable and it may be stressful.
In both cases, we may find ourselves absorbed. Our bodies begin
to hunch over, our breathing become shallow, and we begin to feel
tight inside. The keyboards offer us a wonderful opportunity to
wake up into the moment, expand our bodies, and open awareness
to the presence of our children on our lives.
Today, while on
the computer (perhaps now) sit back in your chair and place your hands
to your side. Shake loose your hands and fingers. Take
a moment and examine the keyboard. On it are all the letters
in your child's name. With your eyes, slowly look to each of
the letters spelling out your child's name. As your eyes meet
each letter, take a slow deep breath and visualize your beautiful
child. Listen for your child reciting aloud his or
her name. If you have more than one child, repeat the exercise
for each, or plan to do it for another child a little later on.
When you
finish, close your eyes and breathe deeply. Before you return
to what you had been doing, gently touch each key spelling out your
child's name. Then touch the keys spelling "I LOVE YOU."
Remember,
your child is always with you.