There are occasions when we spend a great deal
of time with our child. On other occasions, we may be separated
physically from our child for brief periods or for extended periods
of time. The practice of mindful parenting opens awareness to
our child, both when we are physically present with them and when
we are physically separated.
As we all know, there may be times
that our child is inches away, perhaps even calling to us, and we
(our thoughts) are miles away. At other times we may be separated
by a great distance, yet our hearts are with our child.
Today,
allow color to open awareness to the presence of your child in your
life. Allow this opening of awareness to occur even if
you are with your child. It is a source of great joy to
realize the forever deepening of connection that can take
place between you and your child.
To help with this, bring to
mind a color that you find soothing. Breathe deeply and slowly
as you allow this hue to saturate your mind, your being. Sense
it soaking into your body and easing tension. Relax your shoulders
-- soften your belly. Smile.
Now, imagine your child amid
this color in an unusual setting. For example, if the color
was blue you may imagine your child running through a field of fresh blue
grass. Keep the imagery comfortable. If the color was
green, you may visualize your child resting on his or her back
looking up at a green sky. Ponder this imagery for a few
moments. Now you will be ready when the time comes.
Try
to become a little more aware of the wondrous colors that surround
you today. When awareness opens to them, make note of the
different colors as you see them. When you become aware
of the soothing color you selected, call to mind the imagery involving
your child. Breathe fully and relax your shoulders.
No need to think about anything. Just soak in the sensation.